Saturday, November 27, 2010

Simple Joys

I've always been told to make sure to stop and enjoy the simple things of life.  At times, I do find that I enjoy the simple things of life.  However, probably not as much as I should.  It's amazing to me to watch Daniel and Megan, how they really enjoy everything that's simple.  The most recent thing, walking through snow.  Since the first day we had snow, all the kids have wanted to do is play in it.  The first snow we had didn't bring much and so by the time we were able to get out into the snow, it was mostly gone.  A little while later we had a couple of snow storms that have made it possible for the kids to play in it.  Daniel really likes to play in it.  Megan loves to walk in it.

When I take Daniel to school, I walk.  That's the best time for me to get my exercising in.  However, this past week it has been too cold to do that.  And pushing a stroller through the snow is no fun.  But, I've driven to the church and from there all three of us walk to the school.  Megan has absolutely loved that time to walk in the snow.  This has been a gentle reminder to enjoy the simple things of life.

The following pictures are the children playing in the snow.

 
 
 
 
 

Thursday, November 18, 2010

Cheaters never prosper...

Last weekend, as is the case on most fall weekends, there was no shortage of controversy over a particular college football game.  The allegation is that the California Golden Bears cheated against the Oregon Ducks by faking injury to disrupt Oregon's offensive rhythm.  The consensus winner of the worst acting job is cataloged here on youtube.

Kevin Hench, a writer for FoxSports.com posted an article today stating that "cheaters never prosper, except always."  The premise is interesting as he explores all the evidence suggesting that cheaters do actually prosper and even gives an example of a soccer team that suffered a foul that went uncalled because the player fouled managed to stay on his feet and did not engage in theatrics demonstrating foul play.

The reality of what he is saying has rung true for thousands of years.  The ancient psalmist lamented the apparent prosperity of those who employed guile in their quest.  The Lord himself in the New Testament acknowledged that sometimes a person might benefit temporarily from dishonest conduct.  Each of us has seen countless examples in our lives where someone else chose not to follow the rules.  Such occasions often cause us to ask ourselves why we follow the rules.

The answer, of course, lies in the effect of the conduct on one's own character.  Dishonesty is a practice, like most others, that become easier with repetition.  The effect of an act of dishonesty is to cheapen one's word or promise.  Even if no other mortal knows of the deception, the deceiver knows and the dissonance between what s/he knows to be right and what s/he did will be present.  At this point, the person has three choices: (1) Fess up to the mistake and fix it, (2) let the dissonance remain and tear the person apart psychologically, or (3) become so callused to the dissonance that it no longer bothers them.  If a person chooses option 3, they have to go through 2 for a while.  Both of those are unpleasant.  However, the true danger comes after one has settled into the 3rd choice because they start ignoring the difference between right and wrong altogether.  Let us not forget that there is a day of reconning for all.  Some might hope that the Lord will be in too much of a hurry to look at every little thing that we did (or didn't do), but alas, he is the Master of all--he's got time.

Only option 1 allows for a clear conscious and worry-free anticipation of meeting the Maker.  While I think Mr. Hench's article spends too much time on how cheaters apparently prosper, I do like his closing lines.  He quotes Connecticut's men's hoops coach Jim Calhoun as saying, "We may have broken rules, but we did not cheat."  Mr. Hench then observes, "It'd be fun to hear Calhoun explaining that to one of his six grandchildren."  I might add...or his God.

Sunday, November 14, 2010

Happy Birthday Megan

Our sweet Megan had a birthday this past week.  She is now five years old.  It's amazing how time flies for certain things and drags for others.  These past five years have definitely been a flying moment.

This year was her year to have a friend party.  So, we had a princess party and Megan invited 8 of her friends.  The girls came dressed in their princesses outfits.  We had Aurora, Cinderella, Belle, and other beautiful princesses.  We played 'Kiss the Frog' and Bingo.  The girls had fun playing with each other, eating cake and ice cream, giving the presents and then getting to play with the presents. She received, a couple of FurReal pets, games, a Barbie, a Littlest Pet Shop, a Polly Pocket, and window catchers. 

 
 
 
 

Then the next day we had her family party.   She received beads, games, magnetic dolls (like paper dolls), books, a big lipstick bank filled with stickers, paper, pencils, hair clips, stationary, etc.  She also received a back pillow, clothes, and more hair clips.
 
 

Megan went easy on me with the cake this year.  She wanted a princess party and I thought she would want a glamorous princess cake. But instead of that, she had seen a picture on the back of a brownie mix box that had a recipe for Cookies n Cream Brownies.  That is what she wanted.  Love it!!  It was a really good recipe and super easy.  It was great not to have to spend most of my day decorating a cake.
Happy Birthday Miss Megan!!